Happy October Eve everyone! I can’t believe the best day of the year is tomorrow.
I drove a lot yesterday and as I was letting my mind wander between
appointments I thought about nostalgia and it sparked something. What is my
October origin story? When did it become the big orange colored juggernaut that
eclipsed all other months? Though I can’t pin point an exact day or year, I
know it began before I started kindergarten.
If you don’t already know, my family
likes to Decorate (yes, with a capital D) for holidays. Granted I now have
taken that mania to all new heights, but every budding Martha Stewart has to
start somewhere. We kept the boxes of decorations in our rec room on top of the
water heater closet. That 6x6 square held all of our decorations for ALL of the
holidays. I was always so giddy when mom or dad got out the ladder to take the
boxes down. I loved looking at the decorations and watching my mom put them up.
It was truly something special. I think my love for October probably started
there, because after the long drought of having no decorations for half of
July, and all of August and September, October finally rolled around and began
things afresh. October meant it was that much closer to Thanksgiving when we
went up and saw my grandmother and cousins. Then came Christmas and New Year
and before you knew it my birthday. October was like the opening of the gates
at a horse racing track. October meant there were months of fun in store.
Originally October meant Halloween and
that meant candy hauls and a very large orange plastic pumpkin. It meant
wearing a costume and getting to stay up late. There were pumpkins to carve and
pumpkin guts to play with. It meant that I could listen to my Sounds of
Halloween tape and not feel weird about it. Plus it gave my Christmas tape a
chance to rest. I’m pretty sure I was the only six year old who rocked out to
Bach without her parents forcing her to. It also meant that I got to have my
light up spooky mansion in my room. It was the only decoration that lit up
inside the house and it was all mine. I watched that thing for hours. If I
remember correctly, it didn’t live in my room at first. I think it lived in one
of the downstairs windows, but after I snuck it up to my room, it just kinda
stayed there.
I was in love with October before I
ever went to school. But school brought on a whole different kind of October
love. I couldn’t wait to start school, and when I finally did I loved it. I
loved the homework, I loved the desks, I loved the supplies, I loved recess, I
hated nap time, I loved walking to the gym to get hot lunches. School was just
plain magical. I hated for it to end each year and I counted the days until it
began again. I would nag my mother for weeks about getting school supplies and
new clothes, but mostly the school supplies. I still love back to school time.
October meant that for at least a month I had been back in school. Routines
were being established, friendships had been renewed and life was settling back
into a well-worn groove. October meant harvest parties, field trips to the
pumpkin patch, the school wide costume day and best of all family fun night.
October was like one big party. No one ever stressed out over October. It was
just fun.
As I grew up, I didn’t lose any of my
October enthusiasm. Duh, I’m 40 and still getting giddy over an Arctic Circle
square pumpkin kids meal. I started to pay more attention to my costumes. Dad
and I planned routes for our candy onslaught, and the decorations got a bit
more elaborate because I was old enough to have some input on the purchases.
For years and years and years, mom was the only one who was allowed to decorate
the house. I could help take the decorations down, and maybe take them out of
the box, but that was it. I begged and pleaded to be allowed to put one thing
up. But no. It took a long time, but that first time I was allowed to decorate
the house myself, I was in heaven, and it happened in October. Now I am the one
who does the decorating and won’t let mom touch the boxes.
Though I fell in love with Halloween
first, I think I started to really appreciate other aspects of October
somewhere in high school. I always loved the dark nights, the bats at my
window, and the way the leaves changed, but I don’t think I ever equated them
with October until later. I could sit for hours and look out my bedroom window
at the rain coming down on the jewel colored leaves. I would lay awake at night
and watch the wind whip the skinny black tree branches against my window.
October just felt different than the other months. It felt cozy. It felt
slower. It was like a month out of time.
In high school, I finally had to stop
trick or treating, but that fun was replaced with Friday night football games.
The lights of the stadium on a cold October night with the sounds of high
school football can’t be beat. I know I’ve said it before, but it really is
magical. When I went off to college, I brought my love of October with me. I
decorated my desk in the student government offices. I bedazzled my dorm room.
And I met Kristen who introduced me to October Thoughts. After graduation I
found the joy that is group apple cider making and graduated to Pumpkin Spice
Lattes and scones. Moving to the country I added corn mazes and farmers markets
to my list of October loves.
Now I can buy my own pumpkins, order my
own costumes, and write my own Thoughts. Every year I am more and more blessed
by what this wonderful month has to offer. Sure, bad things do happen. This year
mom was in the hospital. One year I got mono and missed all the fun. Six years ago or more we had the house fire. One year we didn’t decorate at all because we
had moved. More often than not though, October shows me something great. I see
more miracles and wonder in October than any other month. For every negative,
there are at least five positives if not more that cancel it out. Surprises are
the rule and not the exception in October. There are little stolen moments,
tiny kindnesses, and grand gestures. For thirty-one days I get to revel in the
beauty and magic, peace and plenty that is October. I never realized how much
it plays a part in my life.
It is interesting to read back over
what I wrote and see how my love for October has changed and grown throughout
the years. It started off as a means to get vast amounts of candy and now it is
still about the candy, but it is also about reflection, slowing down and giving
back. I don’t think little me would ever have imagined how big October could
become. It is easy to dismiss someone who likes October as a silly person who
never grew up or is just plain odd. (Both descriptors do fit me, ha ha, beat ya
to it, but that’s not the point) Yes, I like costumes and flashlights with
pumpkin heads on them. I buy candy corn with no intent to share it with small
children. I decorate like crazy, have scare movie marathons, buy ridiculous
amounts of October scented things, and own way too many holiday themed socks.
But I don’t care. I love October. I love how I feel in October and that is
enough for me.
What is your October origin story?
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